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Relationship Talk With Bukky: My fiancee still spends the night with another man

My girlfriend is older and has a kid; I'm just so confused.

Should I call it quits or what?

Dear Bukky,

Please I need your help. I have this girl that I am dating, but presently she is at another guy's house.

A girl that I have made my intention of marrying her known. She has even met some of my family members.

But I don't know why she is doing this. And we have been dating for over a year. Should I call it quit or what should I do because I am confused here.

Dear reader,

Like this Pulse article says, one of the many thing to ask your partner before deciding to marry her is if she has gotten over her ex, or if there’s any other guy she has feelings for.

I think it’s about time you asked that question. Being in an exclusive relationship with you and sleeping over at another guy’s house is simply wrong and need to be addressed.

It’s enough grounds for breaking up with her as things stand right now. But if you choose to continue the relationship let it be on the ground that she stops that other relationship, no matter how innocent or harmless she may swear it is.

If she can not promise and stick to that, then there's no point continuing that relationship. I think you should quit it.

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